Family Role #4: The Family Scapegoat (The Black Sheep)
“Why is it always my fault?” You may not say it, but you feel it inside. Whatever happens in your family, the blame often comes back to you. If things…
“Why is it always my fault?” You may not say it, but you feel it inside. Whatever happens in your family, the blame often comes back to you. If things…
Lately, I’ve been sitting with the reality that my parents are getting older. It shows up in small ways now. A doctor’s appointment that gets added to my calendar. Slower…
Have you ever looked at your family and quietly thought, “The cycle is going to end with me.” That’s the moment you became the family cycle breaker. Maybe you love…
“You were the funny one.” People might still say this about you, and it often feels like a compliment. You might’ve also been called goofy, the cute one, or the…
“If I just do better, maybe everything will be okay.” That pressure can show up early. It isn’t always obvious or dramatic, but you notice it. You learned that being…
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